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Do you ever wonder if what you’re doing is really important or significant? Do you ever doubt if you’re being effective? I’ll be honest and admit I ask these questions all the time. If you’ve ever asked yourself these questions, then you’re in good company. It just means you’re human!

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If you’ve ever put together a jigsaw puzzle you’ll know that every piece has it’s own place and if you’re missing a piece, then the puzzle is incomplete. Without one single piece the puzzle is incomplete and has a hole in it. There are a lot of churches and organizations like this. They’re incomplete and have holes in them because someone decided their work wasn’t significant.

I think too many times we sell ourselves short and think that we’re not doing anything significant.

The problem is that we often compare our significance to someone else’s. It’s too easy to look at those around you and compare what you’re doing to them. The problem with this is that we can never measure up because there will always be someone better and more gifted than we are.

How can we avoid this trap? I think there are several things to keep in mind and give us perspective:

  1. Without you doing your part the body of Christ has a hole in it.
  2. Someone out there needs what you have in your life.
  3. When everyone is present there is “wholeness” in the church.
  4. Like a puzzle piece, you are uniquely shaped, designed and gifted.
  5. There is a place that is waiting for you to contribute your part.

Question: What are you uniquely gifted to do and how can you help others?

 

In today’s technologically driven world it is imperative to have firewalls for our personal computers. A firewall is a system in place to keep out viruses, hackers and anything potentially destructive. We go to great lengths to protect our computers, but why do we neglect to protect the most valuable thing in our lives, our hearts?

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King Solomon, the wisest man in history, once said, “Guard your heart above all else, for it determines the course of your life.” (Proverbs 4:23 NLT)

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Growing up my father often told me I was “hard headed.” He said this because I didn’t always listen. Actually, it’s not that I didn’t listen, it’s that I didn’t want to listen. This got me in trouble on more than one occasion!

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While reading the Bible in Luke 9:51-56 I discovered I was in good company with the likes of Jesus. Continue Reading…

God Likes To Bless Your Labor

September 3, 2012 — 4 Comments

The Lord loves a good day’s work. We know this because Adam had a job before he had a wife. Genesis 1:15 says, “The Lord God took the man and put him in the Garden of Eden to work it and take care of it.” Adam didn’t get a wife until he had a job. That’s good advice if you’re raising children to be responsible adults.

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Later, the Lord promised the nation of Israel in Deuteronomy 28:8, “The Lord will send a blessing on your barns and on everything you put your hand to. The Lord your God will bless you in the land he is giving you.” For some reason the Lord takes our work seriously.

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The Upside To Pain

August 24, 2012 — Leave a comment

Pain can be a hard taskmaster, but it can also be a great teacher. Pain usually has a way of getting our attention. Why is it that it often takes pain in our lives to make us slow down or change directions?

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I think God allows pain to come into our lives because sometimes that’s the only way He can get our attention. It doesn’t sound good, but I suspect there’s more truth to it than we want to admit.

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When you were a child did you have to get permission from your parents to try something? As we become adults we hardly have to ask permission anymore.

The only problem is that when we were children we were natural risk-takers and the older we get the more we tend to play it safe.

What causes us to make this change? The change comes because the older we get the more we are told to “act your age” or “learn to grow up.”

In other words, quit taking risks and get in line with the rest of us. Risk-takers make other people nervous.

The best way to break this mindset is to give yourself permission.

Give yourself permission to try something new.

Give yourself permission to fail.

Give yourself permission to experiment.

Give yourself permission to take a risk.

Give yourself permission to start a new business

Give yourself permission to start a new website/blog.

Give yourself permission to go on a mission trip.

Give yourself permission to go back to school.

Give yourself permission to land your dream job.

Give yourself permission to _________________.

What are you waiting for? Give yourself permission.

Question: What do you need to give yourself permission to try?

 

When I was a kid I watched the TV show the “Lone Ranger.” It was a great show about a cowboy who wore a mask and went around helping people. He always road a horse and he was the epitome of manhood. He was a man’s man who didn’t need anyone’s help. So I thought…

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The only problem was that he didn’t live up to his name. In fact, he was the Lone Ranger, but he always had a companion with him named Tonto. He was hardly a “long ranger.” In any case, it was a cool show because they had horses, guns and masks. I thought it was a good show when I was a five year old running around my living room slinging my guns.  Continue Reading…

Have you ever thought about your routine for getting ready to go to church? I suspect probably not because we do it all the time. In fact, it’s probably a similar routine as getting ready for work every day.

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Your routine probably consists of hitting the snooze button a few times, finally getting up, heading to the bathroom to get ready, get dressed, fix coffee, get your kids up, yell at your kids and rushing out the door to be late for church.  Continue Reading…

Do you ever have a hard time saying “No” to someone? As a serial people pleaser I know I do. I have a strong desire to help people and to be liked. Unfortunately, this often leaves me frustrated and stretched too far.

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I’m learning the art of saying, “No.” I say it’s an art because we can say “no” to someone and still be nice to them. Saying “no” doesn’t have to be a bad thing. In fact, there are some good benefits to saying “no” to people.  Continue Reading…

A couple of years ago I gave myself the best advice. It’s funny, but I actually gave myself some pretty good advice. Are you ready to hear it?

I was asked by someone about one of my dreams in life. I responded to them that I wanted to be a writer.

After confessing this I said to myself, “Well then, writer’s write!”

That was it! Sounded simple enough.

Do you want me to translate it for you?

Just Do Something!

  • If you want to be writer, then start writing.
  • If you want to be minister, then minister to someone.
  • If you want to be singer, then start singing.
  • If you want to be an artist, then create art.
  • If you want to philanthropist, then give something away.
  • If you want to be a missionary, then take a mission trip this year.
  • If you want to be _________________, then start _________________.

Whatever it is you feel called to do, then start now!

You don’t need an audience to affirm what you’re called to do! Let that thought settle in your head a little bit! Go ahead, read it again!

Question: What can you start doing now?